Sorry guys I have an off topic question
Becaus I have nobody to talk with..
If your boyfriend writes another woman a heart and says it's means only as friends. And he "cheated" on you before with texting another girl about really really intimate things and all...
how would you react or think?
thanks in advance
ps. He is really a good person I m a really insecure person and well jealousy is m second name but am i the only one who thinks that is not okay
Dump him period, find someone who doesn't make you feel insecure and that you can trust. Don't let this guy manipulate and use you
We've been together for 6 years. And he's the person I wanna marry. He doesn't cheat physically but I don't know how we can repair our relationship to the days we were. Plus we've been through really tough times together and he's always there for me.
It's only the times when he makes me insecure so I don't know what to do
I mean, seriously, no offense but if cheated you once there would be a twice. I would dump him for sure and find someone better. But its up to you, there might be experiences in your life that made him trustworthy but i bet its a lie. he CHEATED
come back here and please tell me u dumped him 
No I haven't
first of all.. thank you all for your opinion.
If he have "cheated" physically I would have dump him. Immediately! But he didn't.
Sure the fact that he chattet with another one on a not friends base broke my heart really into pieces. And of course I felt betrayed. And I broke up with him and that was not easy- for both.
but we are together for six years, which is long and through this time he is the best human I've ever met, I swear.
and it's totally normal to fight in the relationship, and there will be always problems and that's why most of the people break up.
but we talked and we want to work on it because we love each other.
i think that is what love is about.
you must consider if you can live without this person or not.
and remember if you fight,
that it's you & your loved ones togetheragainst the problem and not you and your beloved:)
I mean he still cheated emotionally. You should really dump him. Like if he really loved you he would never do those things and u guys even broke up once about these things. So, he clearly knows you are not comfortable with these things and still does it???
He is clearly invalidating your feelings.
Guys... does anybody live in Germany? He dumped me today.. I'm broken.
he said " it's not because of you, you are wonderful. It's me. I need to change." Fuc**** aushole i cant... 6 years of my time ... for nothing
The good thing about it is that he understands that the problem lies within him and that he needs to work on it. Instead of thinking all about the bad things now why not try and see what you can do to learn more about yourself and overall improve your lifestyle and things like that. Make new friends with the same interests as you. There will be people here for you and if you want I'll be your friend. Although I do not live in Germany I would gladly talk to you online.
Sure, discord?
Girl of he loved and cared about u he wouldn't have other women in his dms
