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@Seraphim  i dont have anyone else I know irl to ask so I'm taking my chances here

@Seraphim you have to break up with him as it's not safe nor a healthy relationship. If he threatens to hurt himself and you're worried he'll actually do it then alert his family members if you can and call an ambulance to his house. If he was being serious then he should be okay because of the ambulance or his family helping him and if he was joking then he wouldn't do that again and you can move on with no worries. If you're partner is threatening to hurt themselves if you break up with them then thats abuse and it's not okay. Hope this helped.

@Seraphim you have to break up with him as it's not safe nor a healthy relationship. If he threatens to hurt himself and you're worried he'll actually do it then alert his family members if you can and call an ambulance to his house. If he was being serious then he should be okay because of the ambulance or his family helping him and if he was joking then he wouldn't do that again and you can move on with no worries. If you're partner is threatening to hurt themselves if you break up with them then thats abuse and it's not okay. Hope this helped.

@Seraphim just break up with him. It's easy to say it, but it's hard to actually do it. But it's the only way. You're 14,you should enjoy being young not feeling like your 45 and tied down to some jerk. Even if he threatens hurting himself or other things. It's not your fault.

@Seraphim that's what u get for dating while being only 14 yrs old n with a younger boy at that stupid. U both r still kids u understand kids making irrational decisions.

@Seraphim end the relationship its not guf for either of you.Its not like hes will hurt himself cuz most people who threatens like that wouldnt do so cuz they are afraid (i know someone like that irl)

@Seraphim PLEASE find a way to breakup with him!! Bc this will only get WORSE!! He's manipulating you and this is a unhealthy relationship!! Talk to his family members if u can and tell them that he's telling you that he's going hurt himself if you breakup with him.. or even talk to your own family members.. I pry NOTHING but the BEST for YOU!!  I HOPE ALL GOES WELL!!!

@Seraphim also, you're only 14!! Don't date after this. Enjoy being a kid!! Also, if you have already tried to break up with him and it didn't work, the best thing for you to do is first tell him that you're being grounded, that your phone is getting taken away, and that you don't know when you're getting it back. After that, the ghost and block him everywhere!! Make all of your accounts private if they're not already. That the best advice I could come up with tbh hope this helps!

@Seraphim so youre a rat,hes a baited mousetrap,do we really need to go over what happens if you continue to court the poison cheese?