@ani Understand that i agree with you when you say ." Its a specific genre, that has been wrong/right normalized"
But that's part of my point, the brutalization, the normalization the rationalization of the so-called weaker gender is Prevalent in a lot of these stories.
And we may not know the author personally, but any rational person/s reading someone's written work about the Constant victimization, be it verbally abusive, sexually abusive, or psychologically abusive, will get a window into that authors mindset.
And what that author maybe into. The bottom line is as they say.." "Sometimes A Cigar Is Just A Cigar"...
Meaning, "don't write about Physically abusing women and children in every possible deplorable, depraved, Sadistic way, and then be offended when others in your work/family life, or your reader's view you as a sick twisted, sociopath."
Most of these authors are living out their own short comings/ fantasies when it comes to the Opposite or same-s** relationship's.
Another American southern saying..
"Don't Pi** On My Leg, And Try To Convince Me It's Raining"...or maybe you may know it by the more Modern saying.." Gaslighting"✌️❣️
