idk my experience was weird so my gf we were like flirting like i flirt with everyone but this was like a "I'll get on my knees for u mommy ;) " flirting. I was like i love you very much and she was like me too. I thought she was joking and i was like " im serious tho, i would like to kiss those lips of yours" and she kissed me for like a while and i was shocked and she was said "see you later sweetie." and that's how we started dating so i think it depends