Comment by SHOREBARCHE on How to Get My Husband on My Side - Chapter 77

@SHOREBARCHE now would you like it if someone said this bs about ruby? Why is it only the fl in stories like this can have trauma

@SHOREBARCHE ??? i can understand why you would still dislike ellen BUT BROO WHAT do you mean "get over it" D:

@lcedt  
That's my opinion you can either agree or disagree either way I don't really care but no need to get mad over it though?

@SHOREBARCHE i dont completly agree or disagree with u like i understand where ur coming from but personally i m just kind of disappointed in ellen cause if she literally tried to even tell izek about it then their mom could have gotten help maybe things wouldnt have been all rainbows but it would definetly have been better than this and i m pretty sure that fking maid was emotionally abusing her mother and making her more and more hostile like she tried to do with ruby which is simply disgusting considering ellen always chose her even infront of her mother

@SHOREBARCHE I didn't get mad tho?Just saying how would you feel if someone said this about Ruby

@Pessimistic weeb i feel like we should be a bit more forgiving to Ellen, she was just a little kid in a very terrible situation, she trusted the wrong person... she was probably (most definitely) scared of her mom and her dad was never there for her or her mom

it doesn't make her behaviour now right... it's just more understandable ig

what do you guys think?

@gae_headache i agree with u to some extent like i dont hate her by any means but i dont like her either bcaus she keeps projecting her mother on ruby and thus doesnt see or take ruby as ruby but more of an after image which doesnt sit right to me like yes she had a horrible past and i have nth against her for not thinking straight but at the same time her not taking rubys suffering with the whole gravity (like ruby's abandonment issues and her fear of not being heard which she had let ellen know not directly in words but by her actions and reactions and still never listening to her or not even trying to understand) is just wrong i dont like her whole my past was bad nd no matter wht anyone else went through mine is worse kinda vibe like it just does not feel right

@lcedt  
They are two completely different characters so I'm not sure why you are linking them?

@Pessimistic weeb absolutely agree with you

@SHOREBARCHE they both have trauma?and what ur saying to ellen is "get over her trauma" so I could say the same about ruby no?