@justsmile01 I'm the opposite hahahah i want a partner not a kid .. I don't know if i can bear a child since i don't have a good childhood and our parents are separated dad cheated so me and my sister needed to mature fast or grow up cause our only brother is only 2 year old or 3 that time im barely 14 siter is 16 and mom depressed, she sometimes took her frustrations and anger on us her kids...and our grandad my father's dad SA us but the family didn't di anything.😂😂😂 so yeah im sacred having kids but i do respect yours...given that it was my idea before i might my partner now i was gonna adopt a kid but they were all against it. 😂