so, recently my fam started talking about me having fam and I'm just 20 years old. they were like, 'do u have a boyfriend?' or 'just get a man' jokingly. but i realized, i didn't want to have a boyfriend or a husband but just kids. i told them that but they mocked (?) me, saying i should not make my other cousins as model (they have kids but not wed)
but geez, i really do not want to have a partner. if i must, i want my partner to be sooo far away from me or just meet at most 5 times a year,
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i have the same thoughts. i love kids but i dont want to suffer myself with a partner
In my case I want a partner and then I want kids to love and respect...i treasure a family that can support each other
@justsmile01 Are you on the aro or ace spec? I feel the same way as you tbh live the way you want to regardless of what anyone says 

@justsmile01 you're not alone, i can't keep up with men lol
You can always adopt kids though
@justsmile01 I'm the opposite hahahah i want a partner not a kid .. I don't know if i can bear a child since i don't have a good childhood and our parents are separated dad cheated so me and my sister needed to mature fast or grow up cause our only brother is only 2 year old or 3 that time im barely 14 siter is 16 and mom depressed, she sometimes took her frustrations and anger on us her kids...and our grandad my father's dad SA us but the family didn't di anything.😂😂😂 so yeah im sacred having kids but i do respect yours...given that it was my idea before i might my partner now i was gonna adopt a kid but they were all against it. 😂
@justsmile01
Stay single if you want but don't get pregnant and have a kid just because you want one and then ditch the father of the child
adopted if you can't help it
A Child deserve both parents love you can't steal it just because you don't like to have a partner!!
Also being a single mom isn't easy, children don't stay cute all the time ,they grow up they.
They need all lot of emotional, physical, educational, social and financial support please rethink about what you want
Stay single if you want but don't get pregnant and have a kid just because you want one and then ditch the father of the child
adopted if you can't help it
A Child deserve both parents love you can't steal it just because you don't like to have a partner!!
Also being a single mom isn't easy, children don't stay cute all the time ,they grow up they.
They need all lot of emotional, physical, educational, social and financial support please rethink about what you want