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I just want to say this to someone.....

I've loved my girlfriend, I've been loyal, I stopped using social media for her , I am not even friends with other girls just for her and she, she is a lovely woman who has had bad relationships in the past , we have had fights ofc but we always made up after them, 2 days ago she accused me of cheating, she said she had an intuition about me that I am hiding something from her. That's when something snapped inside me. Anything but cheating? to the man who has been nothing but loyal to her? ofc we made up after that and we are hanging out as usual but it's not the same anymore. I'm hurt terribly hurt, everytime I think about her, I have this weird resentment towards her. I haven't told her this coz I thought that would worry her but I am hurting inside.

15 Replies

BiNShyMember·1 year ago

@Danny I don't want to be the one to put doubt in your mind but usually when someone randomly points a finger at their partner for cheating, it's usually because they are the one cheating themselves

Ryip·1 year ago

@Danny Don't listen to bsabout her "cheating" or what.

What you're feeling is broken trust,and it sure does hurt. It's not easy to heal but at some point, I'm sure you're already aware the both of you will have to talk. There's no getarounds. Though you're also surely aware one wrong move/word and this relationship might definitely break. In any case, ready yourself and face things when that moment comes. Whether you overcome this together or end things there and then, is up to you and her.

But only when trust (be it hers and yours) is (re-)stablish, can such relation be happy.

Take care.

SkyMember·1 year ago

@Danny i think it's better to just openly talk to her abt it, like you were hurt and like how did she come to the conclusion that you were cheating, because this small feeling may turn into something big, and when there's another fight(hope not) you may speak some hurtful words to eachother , just an opinion though

iamyoursugardaddyMember·1 year ago

@Danny to me it looks like (from what you stated) that she is still unhealed from whatever she went through in the past.
And i guess u r probably losing urself. Bcs leaving "social media" is a huge sacrifice( and i admire it personally) and u did it for her and she still doubts you.
idk if she is 'really' pointing YOU or her OWN-SELF.

pew pew·1 year ago

@Danny craziest thing about this is that you stopped using social media for her, absolute W mans wtf🙏🏽 ( Nah but hope u figure it out with her best ofluck )

DannyMember·1 year ago

@Danny Thanks for all the support guys I will surely talk to her . Thanks a lot you people 😭

DannyMember·1 year ago

@BiNShy You are right. In most cases that happens. In my case, I don't really think she is cheating , it is something related to bad experience ig but yeah thanks a lot man

DannyMember·1 year ago

@Ryip Yes you are absolutely right about what I am feeling. I don't really want to end this but if she does, that's not in my hands. I'll talk to her. Thanks a lot.

DannyMember·1 year ago

@Sky Yeah.. it could turn into something big if not talked about. I'll talk to her. Thanks buddy

DannyMember·1 year ago

@iamyoursugardaddy You are right about me losing myself . We've been dating for an year and she has always said that I'll hurt her one day , that I'll leave her, many times she talked about break up after totally misinterpreting my words . She tends to twist my words and turn them around on me. It has become exhausting but that wasn't something that would drive me to leave her. But now i don't think I can handle being the one who's always at fault. I'll talk to her and whatever it. Thanks man what you said really made me feel validated

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