Like... Ian would be better person and have better life with Jo but he is kinda too problematic and broken for him. And Tj would be bigger "monster" if there is no Ian in his life. Can't all of them just be together?
@Doer this kind of stories give off feeling that broken people are always good poor souls. Let me tell you, most of them unfortunately aren't. I was involved with two "broken" people in my life and that didn't end well. None of them wanted to be helped, also their mentality couldn't change, they knew what were doing wrongly and how their toxic behavior affects others but they were far beyond formed personalities.
I chose myself and judging by my experience, I should've always done that.
I'm not saying people like Ian don't deserve happiness but I do say some of us who had rare luck to grow up in perfect families do not live in the same world as people like Ian. Compatibility is very very low on so many levels and it's how it is. I guess it's far better if two people learn to grow out of their trauma together, than two different worlds struggling to work things out to complete exhaustion. I hope I made sense
Also you misinterpreted pretened word Monster. I didn't mean of Tj as literal psychopath. Also, it amazed me how y'all sympathize with Ian and don't like Tj when Ian is in fact the one with more questionable personality
