@Doer this kind of stories give off feeling that broken people are always good poor souls. Let me tell you, most of them unfortunately aren't. I was involved with two "broken" people in my life and that didn't end well.
None of them wanted to be helped, also their mentality couldn't change, they knew what were doing wrongly and how their toxic behavior affects others but they were far beyond formed personalities.
I chose myself and judging by my experience, I should've always done that.
I'm not saying people like Ian don't deserve happiness but I do say some of us who had rare luck to grow up in perfect families do not live in the same world as people like
Ian. Compatibility is very very low on so many levels and it's how it is.
I guess it's far better if two people learn to grow out of their trauma together, than two different worlds struggling to work things out to complete exhaustion.
I hope I made sense
None of them wanted to be helped, also their mentality couldn't change, they knew what were doing wrongly and how their toxic behavior affects others but they were far beyond formed personalities.
I chose myself and judging by my experience, I should've always done that.
I'm not saying people like Ian don't deserve happiness but I do say some of us who had rare luck to grow up in perfect families do not live in the same world as people like
Ian. Compatibility is very very low on so many levels and it's how it is.
I guess it's far better if two people learn to grow out of their trauma together, than two different worlds struggling to work things out to complete exhaustion.
I hope I made sense