Comment by Anonzz on Betrayal of Dignity - Chapter 50

Comment on ChapterBetrayal of Dignity - Chapter 50
Speaking about a man.. I wanna ask you all here something. So there is a guy who just divorced on a week ago (late January 2024). His wife asked for a divorce because she was cheating. But this guy was looking for a new wife before he signed his divorce paper. So someone sending me his picture and when i met this matchmaker (early january) he told me about this guy condition. I was like bro he even not yet completed his divorce and already search for new wife?? Why not he taking care his things first?? 
I feel he only need a new wife for revenge because he was betrayed by his ex wife
What should i do? Do i have to start new relationship with him like get to know him or just NO? I haven't give him any word tho because i feel his mental still unstable.
I was a divorce woman too years ago due to my ex was  cheating and i also felt the same emotional with this guy too when i was divorced. Back then i was emotional and wanted to do my ex some revenge too by being with another new guy. But actually i didn't search for any guy back then.
Do you think this guy has same emotional damage as me years ago?

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@Anonzz If this is not a fake msg, i think you can try to get to know him but i suggest as friends first, so that you don't feel the need to rush things because after all, like you said, i think he's still shocked and I'm sure you know that, but he'll need much of time before really  being ready to start a new relationship with someone.
So as friends first so that you can get to know him without the pressure, and if you feel that he wants to rush things, just find an excuse to stay friends and see how it goes, he might try to find someone else if he's really obsessed with revenge and then that'd be a red flag.. 

But I'm not an expert on those things, so you're free to do whatever :)
I wish you good luck ^^