@Anonzz If this is not a fake msg, i think you can try to get to know him but i suggest as friends first, so that you don't feel the need to rush things because after all, like you said, i think he's still shocked and I'm sure you know that, but he'll need much of time before really being ready to start a new relationship with someone.
So as friends first so that you can get to know him without the pressure, and if you feel that he wants to rush things, just find an excuse to stay friends and see how it goes, he might try to find someone else if he's really obsessed with revenge and then that'd be a red flag..
But I'm not an expert on those things, so you're free to do whatever :)
I wish you good luck ^^
So as friends first so that you can get to know him without the pressure, and if you feel that he wants to rush things, just find an excuse to stay friends and see how it goes, he might try to find someone else if he's really obsessed with revenge and then that'd be a red flag..
But I'm not an expert on those things, so you're free to do whatever :)
I wish you good luck ^^