Comment by Ray on Sapphire Furuse

@Sapphire Furuse it definitely does hurt the first few times though 

you need to relax completely and have enough lube or it's torture. All of that knowledge/ muscle memory typically only comes with experience and even then, if you're using a toy and it's cold your body tenses around it = pain accidentally get it too hard = pain not enough lube or lube dries = pain too big for your experience = pain get anxious someone's in your guts for the first time? = pain. it's a nice sentiment to say you 'shouldnt feel pain' but typically that's just not gonna happen on your first time.

it honestly, in my experience isn't even fun the first time, I had to force myself to 'endure' for about a month before I actually even slightly enjoyed it, it's such an odd feeling it makes you tense up uncomfortably, which hurts so you tense up more, which also hurts and you get the idea