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ABCD.1234Member·1 year ago
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@ABCD.1234 i have situtation going on with my 2 friends like my best friend(ex best friend) she has been a bi*** to me for no reason for half a year and like this other friend i have she had been previously shunned out of my friend group because of a whole fight caused my best friend because she hated her . my best friend started liking a guy 6 months ago my other friend who was previously shunned out (x)started showing feelings for the same guy my bff started calling x a pick although she didnt do anything and she became really weird and posessive of the guy she liked she ignored me when he was around also made fun of me and x randomly currently i confronted x and we talked about it and we just dont want a huge fight in the group so we let it be and told nobody and we are just tolerating it 😭
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Farha Ame
Farha AmeMember·1 year ago
@ABCD.1234 Ugh that sounds so frustrating gurl ...you’re caught in the middle of drama you didn’t even cause, and you’re being hurt in the process.
First of all
Your ex-best friend acting like a total jerk for no reason? Making fun of you and your other friend (X), ignoring you when that guy is around, being super possessive and calling someone a pick-me for liking the same guy? That’s toxic behavior. Not “just jealous,” not “insecure”—she's being mean and manipulative
About your current friendship with X
It’s actually really mature of you both to talk things out instead of causing more drama. You two choosing peace even when your ex-best friend thrives on chaos? That says a lot about your character.
But “tolerating it” isn’t the same as being okay. You both are still hurting silently to keep the group from exploding, and that’s not fair to you.
Here’s what you could think about:
 
Protect your peace: It’s okay to emotionally distance yourself from someone who’s been toxic—even if it used to be your best friend.
 
Grow your bond with X: Sounds like she gets it now. She knows how it feels to be pushed out unfairly, and that can build real trust between you two.
Be lowkey but strong: You don’t need to cause drama, but don’t be afraid to have boundaries. If she mocks you or ignores you again—shut it down calmly but firmly
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