not realated to the notice but i need help pookie can yall assemble
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Comment by ABCD.1234 on Jinx - Chapter 72.5
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@ABCD.1234 i have situtation going on with my 2 friends like my best friend(ex best friend) she has been a bi*** to me for no reason for half a year and like this other friend i have she had been previously shunned out of my friend group because of a whole fight caused my best friend because she hated her . my best friend started liking a guy 6 months ago my other friend who was previously shunned out (x)started showing feelings for the same guy my bff started calling x a pick although she didnt do anything and she became really weird and posessive of the guy she liked she ignored me when he was around also made fun of me and x randomly currently i confronted x and we talked about it and we just dont want a huge fight in the group so we let it be and told nobody and we are just tolerating it 😭
@ABCD.1234 what should i doooooo 
@ABCD.1234 why does she make fun of u 😠
@Byul
gurl i legit don't know 😭
she's just like randomly "omg you're so dumb"
@ABCD.1234
im gonna do my best to help you here bc idk how old you are or your situation outside of this- for refference im in my last year of highschool and currently have a friend i dont want to be around anymore but it would be too much of a hassle to brake it off when im almost done with highschool
ok my immediate advice is she is not your friend, friends do not put romatic relationships in front of their friends end of kf story. No matter what else she may do or say, the fact that she does that is a sign of immaturity and insecurity which isnt something you can "fix". People like this are not worth wasting your time on and genuinely if you are able to, get her out of your life bc she does not value you as a friend or a person at all. Secondly the way she treats you and your other friend is cruel, joking around is fine within reason but knowing the differerence between friendly banter and bullying is important. My current friend who im struggling to be around constantly puts me down and its not good for my mental health, i second guess everything i say and predict what she will say to avoid answers that belittle me and its made me a defensive person. Getting away from people like this when possible is the best thing you can do and focusing on more positive relationships will do you so much more good at any stage in your life.
TLDR: she stinks dump her
i hope you and your other friend are able to sort something out even if you ignore everything a stranger like me in a yaoi manhwa said. Have a great day :)
@ABCD.1234 Ugh that sounds so frustrating gurl ...you’re caught in the middle of drama you didn’t even cause, and you’re being hurt in the process.
First of all
Your ex-best friend acting like a total jerk for no reason? Making fun of you and your other friend (X), ignoring you when that guy is around, being super possessive and calling someone a pick-me for liking the same guy? That’s toxic behavior. Not “just jealous,” not “insecure”—she's being mean and manipulative
About your current friendship with X
It’s actually really mature of you both to talk things out instead of causing more drama. You two choosing peace even when your ex-best friend thrives on chaos? That says a lot about your character.
But “tolerating it” isn’t the same as being okay. You both are still hurting silently to keep the group from exploding, and that’s not fair to you.
Here’s what you could think about:
Protect your peace: It’s okay to emotionally distance yourself from someone who’s been toxic—even if it used to be your best friend.
Grow your bond with X: Sounds like she gets it now. She knows how it feels to be pushed out unfairly, and that can build real trust between you two.
Be lowkey but strong: You don’t need to cause drama, but don’t be afraid to have boundaries. If she mocks you or ignores you again—shut it down calmly but firmly
@MENARESONICE thank you so much i have really thought about this and distancing myself from her was always what I had in mind I think I'm mature enough to know that i don't need to sufeer because of her but then the memories of the 7 years of frienship we had come rushing back in and this person that she likes is the first person she has ever liked before that we used to be absolutely inseperable
@Farha Ame
gurl that's exactly what i did but i haven't completely broken off friendship with my ex bff because i don't think ill be able to take a fight because last year we had this huge group fight which was really hard to recover from. my ex bff doesnt know that X liked the same guy
actually this is what im most curious abt . my ex bff really liked this guy and my other friend started to like him right after although X didnt say anything it was pretty obvious by the way she was giggling and being close to him , my ex bff confronted X about this and she claimed that she didn't like him so my ex bff started calling her a pick me saying sh*t about her ALOT and she used to make jokes on her and used to share them with the group like "omg she will even go for her cousin or the delivery guy" AND THAT'S WHEN I REALLY GOT MAD because who says something like that to a friend while making jokes that's just straight up disgusting so i talked it out with X and she told me that she did like that guy
they are soooo cute together omfg ❤️😭
@ABCD.1234 sooo is it a natural reaction to call a girl pick me and say she broke the girl code by developing feelings for the same guy you like i asked her this and b*tch really had the audacity to say yes 
@ABCD.1234 pfp sauce?