@Pipi And he refuses to understand that she wants to be involved, even just on an information level. He just doesnt care and is dismissing her feelings via attributing it solely to her feeling like she needs to do it, when thats only a small part of it. She shouldn't be forced to be shut out and shut down just because he feels like she shouldn't be involved in any measure. Keeping her entirely in the dark is not only a disservice to her, its actively stunting the growth she wants to have. Like do her feelings not matter???