Overall, what this means is the audience's views has largely been shaped by the way characters looks. The one that's more attractive has most of his actions boiled down to "yearning", that he's a romantic, and his bad behavior is excused until he goes a step too far (but it'll be forgotten eventually). On other hand, everything the less attractive character does is seen in worst way possible, he's not being given the benefit of the doubt, his reasons for his actions are ignored, and his feelings are discarded for sake of better looking one.
In terms of Su-ah's ultimatum, Su-ah himself has agreed before to being used, but then kept trying to push boundaries to get closer to Juhyeok. Also, the fact that Juhyeok actually biologically needs Su-ah now (because of what Su-ah has been doing to him since he presented as Omega) means he can't simply reject Su-ah, even though he doesn't feel ready to go all the way (meaning it's not proper consent but actually coerced).
I personally don't consider what's shown in this BL to be rаре though, but that's because this BL has been giving hints that Juhyeok does like Su-ah, so it's one of those "protests and says no, but secretly likes it" tropes. I just don't like the hypocrisy of the people, both in how they excuse or even ignore one character's toxic actions while hating on other's toxic actions, and how in standard BL where the Uke/bоttom is pretty would have people immediately call out the Seme/tоp for rарing Uke but in this one the Uke is blamed for what he goes through.
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In terms of Su-ah's ultimatum, Su-ah himself has agreed before to being used, but then kept trying to push boundaries to get closer to Juhyeok. Also, the fact that Juhyeok actually biologically needs Su-ah now (because of what Su-ah has been doing to him since he presented as Omega) means he can't simply reject Su-ah, even though he doesn't feel ready to go all the way (meaning it's not proper consent but actually coerced).
I personally don't consider what's shown in this BL to be rаре though, but that's because this BL has been giving hints that Juhyeok does like Su-ah, so it's one of those "protests and says no, but secretly likes it" tropes. I just don't like the hypocrisy of the people, both in how they excuse or even ignore one character's toxic actions while hating on other's toxic actions, and how in standard BL where the Uke/bоttom is pretty would have people immediately call out the Seme/tоp for rарing Uke but in this one the Uke is blamed for what he goes through.
part 2/2