I already read more that 1200 manga and manhwas, so I guess BL is my life.
I love big and strong bottoms, cute and yandere semes.
Wholesome but also red flags.
love your take on this. Personally I found there characterisations kinda realistic. I think so many manwhas and stories exist where everything feels rose coloured and like 'destiny' when it comes to love, but having emotional fluidity is something they lack.
real relationships aren't all 50/50. Sometimes the give more or take more. There are days you're doing 100 and getting nothing back, but that doesn't mean you're not loved. I think this interpretation of being emotionally unavailable and recognising yourself and what you need is enlightening in this story. it's honestly worth rereading. It's why I'm back here rereading this.

youre take of "the aromantic character who did literally everything right deserves to be punched in the face" isn't the great take you thought it would be. His feelings weren't romantic, but he was open and honest and respectful, and he obviously cared about Namwoo and his other partners. He was ready to do literally everything for the relationship he wanted to be in as long as his partner wanted him to.
The arophobia is ridiculous.