@Blalalaika The issue here is you're getting mad at "Angel dust" for calling him a babygirl as if it is an insult by default. It came off as associating male characters with girls or femininity is inherently degrading. The issue here is you making feminization equals disrespect. You're bringing same heteronormative stereotypes that you may or may not against.
Comment by Charlie kirk on Blalalaika
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@Charlie kirk listen, I already apologise to Angel dust for misunderstanding her comment, so why are you still butting in? Feminization is not a problem by itself, it's female readers/watchers of BL, who feminize guys, who are bottoms. Those females hate seeing muscular bottoms or feminine looking tops. They hate switch couples too, because they can understand gay relationships only as equivalent to straight relationships: one must always be in female role aka bottom, another one male role aka top, bottom must look weaker, smaller than top, top always taller, more muscular than bottom and so on.