Comment by Miya on Relationship Guidelines - Chapter 0.8

Comment on ChapterRelationship Guidelines - Chapter 0.8
(2/2) so like in short, im about to date a guy that im not even sure if i genuinely like  (probably cause i used to be a hopelessly in love lesbian) and i hate to think that i dont actally like him cause how tf am i gonna explain this to him?? "hey, i actually didnt like you all this time, sorry. Im still into girls"??? what the fruck, that sounds like i just played his heart all this time! But on top of all that, he's actually a good guy. greenflag, gentleman, knows boundaries, clingy, tall and all which makes me feel bad if i actually didnt like him in that way.

I like anime, yuri, genshin, hsr and Ado + Atarashii Gakko my loves

Spoiler!
If you happen to see someone named sam/live laugh love sam it's probably me in an unregistered acc (sam's my crush)

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Elena
Elena·1 year ago
@Miya Since you are still confused about your feelings for this guy after all the time you've spent together I don't see it ending well. If you actually liked him you wouldn't question your feelings and have crushes on other people. I'd advise you to talk with him honestly about your feelings and not drag this on any longer. It'll only make things worse. Besides, it doesn't matter if he's the perfect guy, he might not be the perfect guy for you.
@Elena hiii, i didn't see this at allgjknwh so sorry but also, an update no one asked for: I eventually gathered my courage to talk to him honestly about this after a few months. He said he'd wait for me but I insisted that we should break up and we did. Just a few weeks ago though, he hit my dms asking how im doing now. Seems like we're back as friends (his friends makes it very obvious that he's still not over me) I dont see any problems though since i've moved on already from my past crushes and is currently crushless. I'm hoping that he'll ask me to try one more time cause maybe it might work this time. I just realized too, I did like him from the start. I was just in denial from the fact that i actually fell for a guy after being a lesbian since birth. sooo yea! thank you so much for your advice! I ended up doing exactly what you said anyways, hehe.