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@EyeRoll "My parents taught me to tell the truth , no matter how bitter it is , and stop people from walking towards destruction.......... And u have the mentality that destroys people from core ...."

And did you ever have to tell them you have been raped by your uncle? Molested by your brother? He**, I don't believe you've never lied to them about a grade, or a horrible thing someone said about them. You seem like a child, I'm gonna be honest. You just don't understand and not willing to empathize with pain so severe. It's about protecting yourself and everyone else. It's good that you have never been in a situation where truth felt like it would destroy you. But they happen. You're stuck on defending people with little empathy because you relate to them. You don't understand how it is to not "be normal". Your mentality of blaming women and thinking "if they haven't told me, it's not my problem" is destroying people with trauma. You even brought up fuc**** Andrew Tate, an abuser and alleged s** trafficker. Is this how you care about the victims? Because I would rather be an open monster than *lie* about your care and then turn around and pull sh** like this. You're faking your care, and faking your understanding. If your parents really taught you not to lie, they would be ashamed of your actions.

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@EyeRoll ( sigh ) well i tied.... G** bless u ... U like staying broken, be my guest.... I do feel guilty , yes , after reading about your situation, your family dynamics , i do think that i was kinda blunt and somewhat harsh , i apologise for that . and i am not gonna like , in my 23 years of life , i have not met a person u have gone through what u have gone through....but living in past , not matter how horrible, its just a recipe for sadsness , i know it must be extremely hard to move on , but u have to let go something for the great good... I can just assume , how hard it must be for u to trust someone, but u need to change your mentality from the core to find happiness , and a nice enough guy like yuu , might actually can help u speed up the process.... I am only defending the guy , because u called him annoying and bad or something , which i completely disagree with , even till now he just want to help , ........and tbh ,  guys , for example me , well u were really passionate about defending fm , and u probably hinted it in your replys , about why u are acting the way u are , now when u have finally revealed it , then i can atleast understand why u are on her side , i still don't think fmc is in the right but i get it now ..... And no one is expecting u to open up from the get go , even a little is fine at start and then gradually over time all of it , but u have to give us something to work with , just hinting won't do , men are not emotional creatures like women , hinting can have 10 different meanings and we never wanna expect the worst.....