@Tetiana
I repeat:
"Traumata, Depression and PTSD are not things you can "heal" with just a "positive mindset/ outlook on life".
Saying that, is trivializing the suffering of all people who experience it. It's even paired with the notion of making these people the culprit of their pain, it becoming their fault in the eyes of people who use these kind of discourse. Quite sickening.
NoOne is sticking to their trauma because they want to."
I don't understand why you're so adamant, that Garam is the exception of this fact. You are trivializing Trauma as something people just need to see the world more positively and give a fu** about people's thoughts...
he dealt with his ex privately and in an environment, where he was accepted and save as gay. A gay club! Not in public or in school/at work. Again, HUGE difference.
and just because people stand up against their past violators doesn't mean they have overcome their trauma or that the trauma is "not sooo bad".
the people who say that are part of the problem!
Yes he needs Patience and Understanding regarding his trauma. He doesn't need patience for his mistakes, like sneaking away without talking.
I repeat:
"Traumata, Depression and PTSD are not things you can "heal" with just a "positive mindset/ outlook on life".
Saying that, is trivializing the suffering of all people who experience it. It's even paired with the notion of making these people the culprit of their pain, it becoming their fault in the eyes of people who use these kind of discourse. Quite sickening.
NoOne is sticking to their trauma because they want to."
I don't understand why you're so adamant, that Garam is the exception of this fact. You are trivializing Trauma as something people just need to see the world more positively and give a fu** about people's thoughts...
he dealt with his ex privately and in an environment, where he was accepted and save as gay. A gay club! Not in public or in school/at work. Again, HUGE difference.
and just because people stand up against their past violators doesn't mean they have overcome their trauma or that the trauma is "not sooo bad".
the people who say that are part of the problem!
Yes he needs Patience and Understanding regarding his trauma. He doesn't need patience for his mistakes, like sneaking away without talking.
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I read romance to relax & for the fluff butterflies
older than sailor moon 🌙
rec: Sa-ye(BL novel)