I have never been a Doyak glazer and has been talking sh** about her writing all season 3. You talk about romantic moments between Joian but let's break some of it down.
The rooftop stargazing where Ian subconsciously admits he's still in love with TJ present tense, then lying to Jo changing it to past tense. Jo even recalls this memory saying he knew Ian was lying to himself back then. How pray tell was that a romantic moment for Joian where Jo learns Ian is IN LOVE WITH TJ
Their first time having s** where jo sl** shames him. Tells him he know him better than he knows himself and basically said good people belong with good people, when Ian is one of those "bad" people he deems he shouldn't be around. But sure Ian tells him he only pursued him for good time, not a long time and instead of walking away he jumps Ian's bone and basically acts like all the other men in Ian's life who only wants him for his body 🙄
Jo coming back to Ian after being dumped as a one night stand agreeing to be on Ian's roster telling Ian to talk things out and not run away only to prevent Ian from talking things out with TJ, hypocrisy at it's finest. Such a romantic moment of losing self respect just to be a side di**.
The infamous tent scene where Ian wanted to check something by kissing Jo. Seems cute. He was being receptive to starting things with Jo only because TJ left him. Oh this feels like the first time only to get ruined by Ian coming to the thought of TJ and Jo continued to fu** a passed out Ian and using his face as a cumrag, something Ian never consented to EVER! And jo felt no remorse whatsoever. Peak romance!!!