Comment by _.laire_.flaire on Terru_chan

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@Terru_chan That's the problem with this. The author set up the problem in a way that feels misogynistic (I don't know another word to use, but I hope you get the context). They showed it with s*x as the only answer, whilst relationships where partners feel worthy and trusting of each other are way more than just that. Tei could approach Shuraka, or vice versa, and they could've communicated. At the start, it felt more raw and genuine emotionally, and I enjoyed it. Of course, development still happens, but (to me, at least, others don't have to agree), it feels bland. Stripping Tei of all he was, making Shuraka such a reckless partner throughout the intercourse, it feels like a typical trope where the bottom is powerless (even if shown to be physically dominant, Tei is not mentally dominant). Once again, people have different outlooks on it. But I am growing increasingly agitated by this reckless approach to s*x as the quickest answer to every situation, because that's just not how relationships should be built. Q*r media affects real humans, and it's f**g everyone up. It bugs me a lot, as someone part of the q*r community. Hope I wasn't rude, and thank you for your comment:D It was great.
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Terru_chan
Terru_chanChat Legend·2 weeks ago
@_.laire_.flaire nope, u weren't rude :D It actually made me laugh a little (not the context but the way u wrote it :D)... I am not sure if I would use misogynistic, but I get what ur trying to say..
-- and EXACTLY... the authors let us watch a big man to underestimate himself, to submit to ML, completely, physically...almost brainlessly... fr, MC feels like he doesn't even have the right to think or breathe...
-- MC - undervalued, disregarding his OWN true feelings/wishes, everything just to please his master (lol, husband....)
-- ML - blinded by "love", totally immature, mentally unstable (yeah maybe bcs of the "blessing/curse", but still...), absolutely disrespecting MC as a human being and seeing him only as his property...
-- neither of them truly knows what the other wants, thinks, or whatever
-- so absolutely, I agreed 100% that s.x i not the answer to get them REALLY closer... on the contrary, it can make them grow even further (in terms of their relationship)
-- and finally, I am on the same page with u - the beginning was much more promising... and there really wasn't too much happening :)
-- I am not giving up on the story, I rarely drop something... but I won't expect too much... I don't want to be disappointed again :)...
-- no need to thanks <33 (but I am thanking u :D <3 thx for the chit-chat, at least I can vent out my frustration and I am happy not to be alone on this :D))