yeah i think shes been blinded by their hatred where she cant see that they're trying to change except for her sis and step mom
cant blame her tho
correct me if im wrong (not tryna act tough or anything okay😨)
Comment by Zed on Post-Possession Damage Control - Chapter 18
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@Zed @Zed I don't think it's that she can't see it, it's more that she doesn't care.
It's not red-hot hatred, it's grey indifference. It doesn't change what they did to her and they could change right back on a whim. Also acknowledging it means they'll expect forgiveness. She doesn't want to forgive them and frankly, they don't deserve it. Her brother didn't have any sort of remorse or introspection until he'd gotten what he wanted from her, now he feels guilty. Worse, he's trying to put a rather price on the pain and suffering she's endured, and a rather cheap one at that. He's trying to force her forgiveness to make himself feel better, he wants absolution from her, for her not to hate him for what he did- like he deserves. he wants her to ignore and forget everything that was done to her, because he feels bad. Ignoring that the person who has been repeatedly harmed for years only wants to leave. She doesn't want revenge she wants to legally and formally get her freedom from the lot of them.
If he truly wanted to make things right he'd outright say he was wrong, without demanding her forgiveness, help her get a divorce, and leave.
Her father's a piece of trash, both his illegitimate children were neglected and abused by their stepmother and their siblings under his roof and he's never batted an eye, or tried to stop it. He's added to their pain. His son is showing more concern and care for his sick daughter Lucy than he did.
It's not red-hot hatred, it's grey indifference. It doesn't change what they did to her and they could change right back on a whim. Also acknowledging it means they'll expect forgiveness. She doesn't want to forgive them and frankly, they don't deserve it. Her brother didn't have any sort of remorse or introspection until he'd gotten what he wanted from her, now he feels guilty. Worse, he's trying to put a rather price on the pain and suffering she's endured, and a rather cheap one at that. He's trying to force her forgiveness to make himself feel better, he wants absolution from her, for her not to hate him for what he did- like he deserves. he wants her to ignore and forget everything that was done to her, because he feels bad. Ignoring that the person who has been repeatedly harmed for years only wants to leave. She doesn't want revenge she wants to legally and formally get her freedom from the lot of them.
If he truly wanted to make things right he'd outright say he was wrong, without demanding her forgiveness, help her get a divorce, and leave.
Her father's a piece of trash, both his illegitimate children were neglected and abused by their stepmother and their siblings under his roof and he's never batted an eye, or tried to stop it. He's added to their pain. His son is showing more concern and care for his sick daughter Lucy than he did.
@otterlyanylitical alright thanks i see now i rlly thought they were being good my bad
@Zed not really because you can see it in different ways for one we don't know what is his reasons on treating her like that when he told her not to speak of her mom he didn't look like he was disgusted by mom if so he would have added more to it such as "filthy woman or low life" it was more so that he was worried (that is from my point of view) I don't think that her father is a piece of trash though I don't agree with certain things that he did as far as her being abused by her family and he didn't do anything
. My thought is either A.) He thought by her being there was her being happy and as long as she is in the area of him she is safe ( it would still not a good excuse for allowing something to go on as far as her being abused ) or B.) Him not showing her affection is actually saving her because if they find out that he has something that is precious that he wants to keep by who's to say that somebody is going to try to take that away like with her mom.
He probably loved her mom but somebody ended up killing her because she was precious to him ( or sacrificing herself to save her daughter), and he's probably afraid they're going to do the same thing to her. And him keepin her there even though she asked for divorce doesn't mean he doesn't want her to be divorced he doesn't want her to leave the kingdom cuz in the beginning when she asks for it he accepted it automatically but when she involved leaving the kingdom he did not want that.
There can be other ways to this that other people might think but I'm still going to be standing by with my hypothesis in the way I think until I see a clear fact of certain things I'm not condoning with her brothers did to her.
. My thought is either A.) He thought by her being there was her being happy and as long as she is in the area of him she is safe ( it would still not a good excuse for allowing something to go on as far as her being abused ) or B.) Him not showing her affection is actually saving her because if they find out that he has something that is precious that he wants to keep by who's to say that somebody is going to try to take that away like with her mom.
He probably loved her mom but somebody ended up killing her because she was precious to him ( or sacrificing herself to save her daughter), and he's probably afraid they're going to do the same thing to her. And him keepin her there even though she asked for divorce doesn't mean he doesn't want her to be divorced he doesn't want her to leave the kingdom cuz in the beginning when she asks for it he accepted it automatically but when she involved leaving the kingdom he did not want that.
There can be other ways to this that other people might think but I'm still going to be standing by with my hypothesis in the way I think until I see a clear fact of certain things I'm not condoning with her brothers did to her.
@Zed there are many good reasons for it but regardless of how they've changed from hating her to liking her, it's never comfortable trying to be close to someone thats has been treating you like garbage since birth and she wanted out because the warmth from being in that korean person's family have changed her entire perception and standard of her family.
There might be a feeling of "I want to be back in that body's family since I would rather have them as my real family", or "I would rather be by myself than getting involved with someone else who hated me in the past" that made her that way. Her feeling of "love", not her but the korean person who was in her body, had ruined the concept of love for her in her own world as well since obviously, her boyfriend back on earth is probably so much kinder and more of a gentlemen than everyone here.
There might be a feeling of "I want to be back in that body's family since I would rather have them as my real family", or "I would rather be by myself than getting involved with someone else who hated me in the past" that made her that way. Her feeling of "love", not her but the korean person who was in her body, had ruined the concept of love for her in her own world as well since obviously, her boyfriend back on earth is probably so much kinder and more of a gentlemen than everyone here.