I did not even remember Kyuho demanded the top to stop seeing a girl, he is wrong for acting like his situation is different in any way, if one demands to stop seeeing other people then the other is allowed to do the same thing and acting like his friendship means more than the one of the top is disrespectful. He is too entitled, before I could not side with neither of them, but seeing this I side with the top. He got rid of the ones Kyuho didnt want him to see without problem but Kyuho does not want to do the same so he is in the wrong for me
@Kaji Not at all comparable. It's been a while since I read the earlier chapters, but I'm pretty sure ML didn't care much at all about that girl, barely an acquaintance. She was interested romantically in the ML. This is one of Kyuho's BEST friends and there's obviously no romantic feelings between them, they're just both gay.
@fujoshitrash it is comparable because it is cutting someone off, and you are gaslighting the boy cause how do you know what the girl meant to him? Your friend is not more important than mine, it does not matter how long your friendship is, especially when he did not ask to cut him off but to not be engaged in those situations that can be missunderstood easily. You ask someone to cut off people be ready to do the same, otherwise do not waste his time, respect is key and bottom is a gaslighter thinking he is right always and his relationships are more important The top said it, he put effort and time in his friendship, he cares about her, he wanted to keep seeing her if it wasnt because of the bottom, so who is he to say she was not important to him?
@Kaji while you're right ig it really is different tho. Bcs Kang is Kyuho best friend. But both of their points are right too. Both should respect each other's choices but aslo listen to each other. The concern is "you both are gay so you might end up having s** specially when you're both drunk" this happens a lot between friends. So ml's concern is realistic. While I side with none I think they should've talked calmly. Tho I'm kind lf suspicious of Kang tbh. He's gone mia before and etc etc I'm curious.
@12341234 But WE as the AUDIENCE know she wasn't important to the ML, that's important context! Kyuho was telling him to put distance more out of respect for the girl than anything, or to just put a stop to the flirting. Also, respecting boundaries in any relationship is totally fine and understandable, but it's not healthy to demand you cut off friendships and familial relationships for no reason other than a lack of trust. Asking your partner (FWB or otherwise) to cut off blatant flirtations from other people is different from asking them to completely cut out a lifelong friendship from your life when there's no legitimate reason for it. Kyuho is close and friendly with his friend. That's not a legitimate reason. They're also JUST a FWB because ML didn't want to worry about feelings!!! We're not going to sit here and act like him s!utshaming and accusing Kyuho of sleeping around with no real basis isn't classic gaslighting, come on, bruh.
@fujoshitrash I agree with you about everything but the ml definitely saw kyuho sleeping around tho? Is it accusing when it’s true? Tho I hate the fact he slutshamed kyuho 😐
@7moons Not coming for you at all, sorry if my tone sounds like that, but 'sleeping around' implies cheating. They're college students engaging in casual sexual relationships. That's "all" their relationship is now, and if Kyuho's agreed to the exclusivity and is adamant he's not sleeping with other people, ML has no reason not to believe him other than his own repressed feelings. And being a d!ck.
@fujoshitrash that's very true but what I meant was, since ml said "diseases" ig he meant std and aids etc so sleeping around can go both ways depending on how you read or view it?
@fujoshitrash sleeping around means sleeping around and you are wrong Sleeping around means having s** with many and does not imply cheating in any way Cheating is another thing You are trying to defend the undefendable
