Comment by 12341234 on fujoshitrash

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@fujoshitrash it is comparable because it is cutting someone off, and you are gaslighting the boy cause how do you know what the girl meant to him? Your friend is not more important than mine, it does not matter how long your friendship is, especially when he did not ask to cut him off but to not be engaged in those situations that can be missunderstood easily. You ask someone to cut off people be ready to do the same, otherwise do not waste his time, respect is key and bottom is a gaslighter thinking he is right always and his relationships are more important
The top said it, he put effort and time in his friendship, he cares about her, he wanted to keep seeing her if it wasnt because of the bottom, so who is he to say she was not important to him?

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@12341234 But WE as the AUDIENCE know she wasn't important to the ML, that's important context! Kyuho was telling him to put distance more out of respect for the girl than anything, or to just put a stop to the flirting. Also, respecting boundaries in any relationship is totally fine and understandable, but it's not healthy to demand you cut off friendships and familial relationships for no reason other than a lack of trust. Asking your partner (FWB or otherwise) to cut off blatant flirtations from other people is different from asking them to completely cut out a lifelong friendship from your life when there's no legitimate reason for it. Kyuho is close and friendly with his friend. That's not a legitimate reason. They're also JUST a FWB because ML didn't want to worry about feelings!!! We're not going to sit here and act like him s!utshaming and accusing Kyuho of sleeping around with no real basis isn't classic gaslighting, come on, bruh.