@Batou You've nailed it precisely, and personally, I think some people are intentionally overlooking the trauma because they want to whine about "another icky harem manga." Like Edna, in the comments below. Edna is clearly and demonstrably in the wrong but is either egotistically unwilling or too intellectually deficient to admit it, despite having it pointed out several times.
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