He's a grown a** man who can't do anything and troubles everyone around him....You are a grown up you should take care of yourself not throwing tantrums and forcing people to take care of you.... Let's be honest, Uke only got used to taking care of this bas**** child coz he didn't have options, not because he likes taking care of him... Saying "i don't understand feelings so i don't get what you are feeling, why are you angry" is not wholesome in any way..... That's bullsh*t.... You are overbearing and childish... This is no wholesome in any way... That stupid brat needs a maid not a partner of equal standing....