@RiftansWife I have, doesnt change my point or what I said. Hes still constantly putting her down, dismissing her wants, and ignoring her feelings, making her feel guilty for simply wanting the freedom to choose. They objectively need to find a middle ground where she isnt jumping into a shark pit, but he also isnt causing his wife to wither away in misery. Knowing the how and why of his behavior doesnt change that.