Comment by Bluerose_ on Jansetty

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@Jansetty uhm So I kinda wanted to update you a lil
So yes I didn't confess at all 
But last Friday was my final day at school before my finals and I brought a diary to take my classmates signatures (where some wrote lil thoughts as well)
...so this crush of my wrote hate "you're my life" and before writing he was like i should write smth that would make an impact/impression on you (to which idk if it's smth that you would say to Friends. So my friends says its not that normal given our real relationship cos yes we are close friends but not that close.
But imo he thinks of me as a friend(?))
And then I asked later in the afternoon I think, if he can accompany me back to my house to after this class dinner w our classmates and teacher to which he said yes
(But I remember previously when I asked to accompany me, he told his friend to do it who live kinda near me, cos ye we have like 3 metro stations distance)

So I actually don't get him istg

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@Bluerose_ WOAH Thanks for the update, I was really curious! Frankly, I've heard that it's usually recommended to avoid uncertainty(?) It's really confusing. If I were you, I guess I couldn't help but ask what him what he meant (Don't mind me saying that, I never asked either)

OHH, I have something to say too!! When I read your first comment, my friend was with me and he was also very curious about you. From time to time he asks "I wonder what she did? Did she confess?" Well, I think I will confess to him soon. We are graduating soon like you and we will live in different cities.
He is a close friend of mine, today I will take him a pie that I made and we will have a picnic. If possible, I want to learn his feelings during this week, I think that even if I get rejected, since he is my close friend, we won't fall out (I hope, actually??) 
I hope everything goes the way we both want 🌻😭😭
@Bluerose_ OH By the way, my friend said that if your friend wrote you like that, he probably wrote it because he was curious about your reaction. If you don't take action, he might think that you are friends. And if he can say those things to you in a "friendly" way, then you should say those kinds of things in a "friendly" way too. And if you have mutual friends with him, you can also consult them, he says 
(I couldn't edit my other comment so i had to write a second one)