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Warrior
WarriorMember·1 year ago(edited)
@ILOVERAMEN  
It's good thinking. But not all of men are monsters in this society. Men are also scared of being treated harsh way by women. Just an incident about how I feel around women ( don't know about others men in this ):
One day, I was walking in the road and saw a woman walking alone then she turn twice backwards and look at me up and down which scares me because I was wearing a black mask and glasses ( I don't think I look like pervert but the way the she look twice was scaring me ). Then I walk quickly and overtake the woman and walk so quickly. To the point that woman can't see me Infront of her and I can't see her behind me. Another incident like this had also happened with me and my friend. That time, me and my friend were going upstairs then he and me mistakenly saw the thing under the dress of that one girl who was near the stairs. He rotated his whole body and I rotated my head, so that we can't see that ( it was embarrassing ). Also, I feel insecure around most women and the only women I feel secure around are my mother and relatives and old womans who over 60 or more than that. 
Time is all thing and all the things are time

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@Book YEAH I agree with you. Not all women are angel also not man are monsters. There are a few men I have met who genuinely respects women. I also see many men Lowering their gaze as they walk past a women. I'm sorry for what happened to you and your friends. But nowadays the criime rate is so bad that those girls can't help but feel that way.
@Book women are getting assaulted and you have to share your experience about how u dont feel comfortable?  stop making this sh** about you
@Book

Sorry you went through....that?
But there’s a huge difference between women fearing for their safety and men feeling uncomfortable because a woman glared at them. I’m not saying men are always at fault—I’m a man too—but come on.

If a woman is talking about how she and others are terrified because of a misogynistic religious party in a country where being born a woman is practically a nightmare, and your response is ‘not all men are bad, and women can be scary too because one looked at me funny,’ that’s just ignorant and tone-deaf.

You can complain about that elsewhere, but not when a woman is talking about her very real fears. Do better, man.