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du badu baduMember·1 year ago
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it's just that the way you feel that jealousy could lead to severe controlling behaviour didnt sit right with me as i said the consequences of one's feeling is too wide

someone could feel jealous with hatred, jealous then giving up, jealous then anxious and depressed, jealous the  possessive and controlling

jealousy is an emotion but the consequences also depends on other emotions mixed with jealousy

for me personally, i'd rather focus on consideration, comprehension, acceptance, forgiveness, communication, if someone didnt possess this characteristics, that is the bad thing, feeling jealousy is natural feeling and if it is a negative emotion then how we counter if depends on the positive emotions we have, if they didnt have that, that is when it become the severe controlling, hatred and possessiveness

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pyrolynx71Member·1 year ago
@du badu badu ok i think i made my reply to complicated for you to understand so let me make it simple for you.

1) getting jealous over someone when you're not even in a relationship with them and trying to stop them from talking to other people than you is bad. your feelings aren't what's bad, it's the fact that you're trying to control someone that is bad. especially since you're not in a relationship with them.

2) if you are in a relationship, and you get jealous of your partner when they didn't do anything then get angry at them is bad. you should always try to communicate with your partner before fighting with them. attacking them for something you assumed they did without any proof is bad.

3) telling your partner never to talk to anyone of the opposite s** is bad. if they are scared and ask you to protect them, of course that's ok! but just saying "never talk to other men because you will cheat on me if you do" is MESSED UP.

4) series aimed at young girls are portraying these things as things you should want in a partner. that level of possessiveness and control leads to abuse.

like i said, it's the way the love interests act on their jealousy that's bad. it's the way they're trying to control the girl that's bad. you're literally agreeing with me but insisting i'm wrong because you're so defensive of jealousy. when i'm criticising THE WAY THEY ARE ACTING because of their. im criticisng the way jealousy is portrayed in FICTION. for young girls.
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