Comment by Spinach on Shadow laws

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@Shadow laws Do you fasten your belt only when you are planning to get into an accident? Do you buy insurance only when you know your car will be stolen next week? Or do you lock the door only when you are  waiting for robbers at your house?

You may never get into an accident driving for 40 years, but the day you do, without fastened belt you are probably will get heavily injured, or dead. How do you think, is it worth it to fasten your belt every day considering the possibility this could save your life one day?

The majority of people are good and law-abiding, but it gets only one criminal to ruin your life. This means you cannot trust just everyone and also means you have to be prepared for dangerous situations.

Your generalisation is not constructive. Both men and women are people and can be good or bad. Just because you consider yourself a good man doesn't mean every man is good. 

That's lucky of you to never meet this type of guy, but that doesn't mean everyone is just as lucky, as you. I wasn't. And think about this, assaulters can assault a lot of women before they get caught and put in prison. So there may be only one criminal among 20 good men, but among 20 women half of them would be assaulted and traumatised by this criminal. Do you understand my point? 

If you are able to read manga on the Internet, you are definitely able to search for definition of «feminism». I suggest you to go look for it as soon as possible and stop embarrassing yourself in front of people.

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@Spinach modern day feminism is nothing like what the defination tells us , equality , rurar area yes , but in cities where feminism is most spread, what equality are they fighting for in 2024 ? Now a days woman have more advantage and opportunities then men , in any government, tell me one agenda or law , made to improve mens life on the other hand , there is always sometimes for woman , like quata's and sh** , now u gonna say men already have everything, top 10 Percent yes , but most of us have nothing, now a days with inflation and joblessness, we are pretty miserable .... 

And i am sorry u had to go though sometimes terrible, and i am happy to hear that still u believe that there are more good men then bad , but still because of the mentality people have these days , we always have the burden to prove ourselves, men are demonized and that's the reason its normal to hear phrases like " men are trash " , we can't say " women are trash " that would be offensive but the prior one isn't ? ,  like if i were to generalize and say, " we shouldn't trust women and always be vigilant around women because they are gold-diggers and are just after ur money " , many women would be offended by this statement , but its the same , some women are just after your money, but i am not gonna just assume for safety that every women i meet is a golddigger , that wouldn't be fair , unless they show some sigh that she might be one ..

being vigilant is fine , but generalizing is not , its very common in social media and in this story for instance, saying men might attack , instead of a bad person might attrack or some bad men might attract, all this generalization is doing is ,  filling the young generation with fear and disgust for opposite gender , that's not fair .....