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Bunny
BunnyMember·11 months ago
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@Pink tulips Trauma justifys it. You need to understand that past influences you towards the future if you dont get help or move on. I get it that Mr. Joo was complete sh** to Kim Dan and it's not right but please understand that Jaekyung isn't really conscious of his actions because he doesn't really feel sympathy nor understand others feelings as his lore explains that he father so terrible all that anger cause him to be so cold and rude. So the past does have to do with him being who he is. And also we all know da** well he is gonna change soon. So dont worry so much on his terrible side as he clearly is slowly changing. Hope this helps.
I lowkey need to get my life together but for some reason I chose not to. I'm straight but I seem to attract yaoi. Odd isn't it?

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1 - Jinx
2 - BJ Alex
3 - Kiss me, Liar

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Pink tulips
Pink tulipsMember·11 months ago
@Bunny trauma isn't a excuse or justify someone's actions they're allot of other bl leads who have trauma but aren't a shi*** fuc**** character this is simply the abused becomes the abuser trope and it's so overused in most toxic bls and you guys always fall for it and start defending them just bc they have some shi*** backstory that anyone could've predicated. It's overused and over done.
Ethan Taylor
Ethan TaylorMember·4 months ago
@Bunny Dan had nothing to do with his past, so how does that justify him r@pign / S*xully ab*sing him? You're all just using it as a way to absolve him of taking accountability without understanding the full extent of what he actually did to him. Why is it that the abuse inflicted on Jaekyung is prioritised more than the abuse he inflicted onto dan?. especially since these two truths can exist: he can be a product of his upbringing while still condemning his current action as its own thing. Trauma is an explanation, not an excuse - also, is him not being 'conscious' a way of infantilising him to remove a part he had in his own actions?. just asking
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