@Ash oh that's js an example like I do try my best not to leave the house that day at all but let's say at times when I do have to leave such as like going to other relatives house for a family gathering cause that's what festivals are for, oh and also there's no place like location for this festiva like it's happening everywhere in every street and house so there's almost no avoiding it with kids around who do not listen so I hope you get my point here. I don't consider it insensitive to be told not to participate cause you didn't know properly of the festival and it is what I do avoid it, but for other cases like maybe when some ppl have phobias and you may unknowingly blurt out smth very hurtful to them and think that they're being dramatic, that's when you're actually being insensitive.