@snaake If I were you I'd come out when I have my own place or I would plan ahead and ask to stay at a friend's house or something just in case they kick you out and disown you, but I hope everything goes well for you.
@Mangalover yeah you're right... Come out when you're financially stable.. and have sources to rely on... Come out when everybody relies on you... I believe no g** is homophobic...
@Mangalover Bruh!that's what I'm planning on doing yeah my parents know and they've accepted but my granma is a religious person so it ain't easy I just pray aftrt college I get a job become independent and do it whenever I'm ready
@snaake Oh I understand you very well! I am bi. Still did not come out. Because I love a man and married him (he knows I am bi!) So the need to tell anyone is gone. But sometimes I think about what ifs. like what if I fell in with a woman? My family surely would've cut all their ties with me. Knowing that sometimes I am too sad and mad at the same time.
Like... I know they love me. But I also know they love the ideal version of me they know. Not the real version of me my man or my friends know.
