Comment by marsah on snaake

@snaake Oh I understand you very well! I am bi. Still did not come out. Because I love a man and married him (he knows I am bi!) So the need to tell anyone is gone.
But sometimes I think about what ifs. like what if I fell in with a woman? My family surely would've cut all their ties with me. Knowing that sometimes I am too sad and mad at the same time.

Like... I know they love me. But I also know they love the ideal version of me they know. Not the real version of me my man or my friends know.