Comment by Jonghoseok on Transy

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@Transy Did I said that I justify his actions? Can you read my comment properly before replying, I clearly wrote as a parent his fear of loosing his child to the sea specially when he is already is suffering a trauma of loosing his wife obviously make sense why he is getting blunt over taking any action to prevent his son from going there and loosing his life not to mention this man is living with this trauma for years and people around him feeding this guilt over and over again. If you have any basic idea of psychology or sense you will understand the action are not taken in meant of abuse but due to utter fear and love for the only family he has. 
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@Jonghoseok  I didn't say that you were justifying his actions, but the fact that you are saying "Think it from a point of a parent before shi**** on him and calling him names likes a a*** seriously" and the "Why is everyone cursing on the dad". Like you didn't see him just hit his own kid and lock him in a room. That is abuse and nothing excuses that. Your comment is dismissing victim's trauma. I understand that he's going through a hard time but don't use that as a excuse for the abuser with "due to utter fear and love for the only family he has". They're abusers out there that think they're a good person and say that they're doing it (harming) because they love you or they care about you. Sometimes they might mean it, but they're still harming the victim. Your comment is very insensitive even if you didn't mean to be towardsabused victims.