Comment by Chibi on Back to School: All Grown Up - Chapter 2

@Chibi Girl, don’t embarrass yourselfChiwoo repeated "wait", "it hurts", "stop" multiple times, but the blond jerk only replied with "I can’t". And before that, he didn’t even want to have s** in the first place — he was clearly pressured into it through guilt-tripping.

A lot of people here have pointed this out, understanding that this is rаpe and that it reflects a toxic dynamic that should never be normalized.

So stop playing the victim. It just comes off as pathetic.

@March   yea yea AND With the other One? 
So selective about 🍇 why? 
Why you dont seem to see both cases being bad?
How you describe him acting innocenty, but the other not.
Jihyun  GUILT TRIPPING IS FAR WORST.
Why? He is saying all the time 
"Its YOUR FAULT, ITS YOUR FAULT" to the MC 

People dont seem to understand, with the first story he would hurt his loved One , he wasnt fine in the head, this was the true ending from all the abuse he did. NOT FROM WHAT HE WAS. 

And think again, with the blond guy, its a world where HE WAS ABUSED 
With jihyun not! So the responses could be from that.

Have a good life.
Read the authors note and understand, cause was from that , that i understood as well.

@Chibi  You keep repeating "both cases being bad", yet everything you write is just you scrambling to defend the blond mf. He’s not the golden retriever you’re trying to make him out to be. He’s a domestic abuser, a manipulator and a rapist.

And notice, I didn’t even mention Jihyun or any other character in my comment to this chapter, yet you’re too clueless to bring any actual arguments, so you just deflect.

Calling anyone a kid while completely failing to grasp the story is downright ridiculous.

This whole "normal view of the story" claim is laughable. With a take this off-base, you’re the last person who should be lecturing anyone.

Before telling others to "move on", try understanding the material you’re so confidently misrepresenting.

And yes, everyone can see you liking your own comments. It’s obvious. And pathetic in the funniest way possible

@March it seems you dont seem to accept any perspective of  the blond guy.

The blond guy had to aproach a guy with severe trauma and really different responses to love. He tried to show his affection. MC wouldnt admit to his face, but since we are both readers, we know how he wasnt unconfortable, he started liking the blond guy with the affection the guy would throw at him.

I mention jihyun cause its obvious you are saying all that cause you prefer him.
If you didnt , you would understand that both were like that, and you wouldnt have mentioned. 

I love both of them so idk What you trying to throw hate. 
You just are selective Im What to read and understand i Guess.

@Chibi "The blond guy had to approach a guy with severe trauma". How exactly were manipulation, guilt-tripping and outright sеxual assault supposed to help with that? If you had even a basic understanding of psychology, you’d see that the blond mf simply exploited Chiwoo’s vulnerability to bind him to himself. This ending clearly shows how toxic and unhealthy their relationship is. And the fact that most readers feel discomfort and rejection toward it only proves that it’s the story, not the audience.

I sincerely hope the author isn’t romanticizing this, although I wouldn’t be surprised — many of her colleagues tend to deny or downplay rаре in their works because acknowledging it can hurt sales. But I think that’s not the case here, since the author gave us an ending where all the horror was just a bad dream and Chiwoo ends up happy with Jihyun.

And please, stop playing the "I love both of them" card — it’s transparent. You’re clearly trying to appear neutral, but based on your previous statements, it’s obvious you’re not.

@March Are you saying i dont mean it? What part of psycology is that? 
I love them both, and thats a fact, thats why Im defending the blond, even with Jihyun charcteristics i liked the character, but calling out a charcter that was worried about the MC, i Said out loud, why? 

Tell me, if i aproach someone helping out the person to feel happier, its manipulating her to like me? 
Since She is in a Tough state i cant become her friend cause She was in that state and i wanted to be her friend? im manipulating her, to become my friend, cause She is in a weak state after all. ???? 

Why everyone actually loved jihyun and felt a bittersweet ending was cause he actually redimmed himself but the MC didnt accepted that. 
I felt sad too, but i prefer chose What is the most confortable for the character instead of my favorite.

@March and by the way, you should really read the note again.
Its fine being Two seperate paralels , but guess you dont want to swallow that information. 
IF She really liked abuse, IM SURE SHE would make jihyun ml on the first story aaaand the MC would forgive all that even without him changing. 
Thats whats really romanticizing abuse is, cause whatever happens, you just Stay and accept it, wich he didnt. 
And In the end, we all see What he thought on the first story, even if blond was pushing and MC KNEW IT, he liked it, didnt felt unconfortable. Thats the whole point no? He felt good , thats all that mattters

@Chibi "Helping out the person to feel happier"? How exactly are obvious manipulation, guilt-tripping, ignoring that person’s wishes and sexual assaults supposed to make anyone happy? If the blond mf truly cared about Chiwoo, he wouldn’t be doing any of that. Excusing this behavior with "good intentions" is exactly what romanticizing abuse looks like.

It’s sad if you’re actually an adult and still don’t get this.

@March    
When he agreed WHEN not being in a weak state? Its just like asking your boyfriend to go for a Ride Somewhere cause you wanted and he already Said no cause he dont wanna , but then he loves you so he goes with you even not wanting, but for you he does.
Same storyline on the first part.
Cause its that, What it meant.