Comment by March on Chibi

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@Chibi "The blond guy had to approach a guy with severe trauma". How exactly were manipulation, guilt-tripping and outright sеxual assault supposed to help with that? If you had even a basic understanding of psychology, you’d see that the blond mf simply exploited Chiwoo’s vulnerability to bind him to himself. This ending clearly shows how toxic and unhealthy their relationship is. And the fact that most readers feel discomfort and rejection toward it only proves that it’s the story, not the audience.

I sincerely hope the author isn’t romanticizing this, although I wouldn’t be surprised — many of her colleagues tend to deny or downplay rаре in their works because acknowledging it can hurt sales. But I think that’s not the case here, since the author gave us an ending where all the horror was just a bad dream and Chiwoo ends up happy with Jihyun.

And please, stop playing the "I love both of them" card — it’s transparent. You’re clearly trying to appear neutral, but based on your previous statements, it’s obvious you’re not.

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Chibi
ChibiMember·6 months ago(edited)
@March Are you saying i dont mean it? What part of psycology is that? 
I love them both, and thats a fact, thats why Im defending the blond, even with Jihyun charcteristics i liked the character, but calling out a charcter that was worried about the MC, i Said out loud, why? 

Tell me, if i aproach someone helping out the person to feel happier, its manipulating her to like me? 
Since She is in a Tough state i cant become her friend cause She was in that state and i wanted to be her friend? im manipulating her, to become my friend, cause She is in a weak state after all. ???? 

Why everyone actually loved jihyun and felt a bittersweet ending was cause he actually redimmed himself but the MC didnt accepted that. 
I felt sad too, but i prefer chose What is the most confortable for the character instead of my favorite.
Chibi
ChibiMember·6 months ago(edited)
@March and by the way, you should really read the note again.
Its fine being Two seperate paralels , but guess you dont want to swallow that information. 
IF She really liked abuse, IM SURE SHE would make jihyun ml on the first story aaaand the MC would forgive all that even without him changing. 
Thats whats really romanticizing abuse is, cause whatever happens, you just Stay and accept it, wich he didnt. 
And In the end, we all see What he thought on the first story, even if blond was pushing and MC KNEW IT, he liked it, didnt felt unconfortable. Thats the whole point no? He felt good , thats all that mattters