Comment by Your mummy on Lady's Parfait Time - Chapter 4

@Your mummy I assume it's different for everyone and it depends on whether or not you have a fuc**** psycho as your partner or someone who respects others. however I personally am asexual and have no intention of finding out so your best bet is asking someone who has done the deed their experiences.

@Deergod thank you for answer and suggestion)) may you tell me how did you understand that you are assxual? You think that s** it's smt disgusting or painful? It's a personal question, so i will understand if you don't answer me...

@Your mummy Crying depends on your partner! If my partner starts crying out of nowhere during our first time having s** I would be concerned and I would ask multiple questions. Consent is crucial. I am a girl, so having org**** would be overwhelming and I would cry a little, but my Gf would always ask if I am okay. She would also cry and I would stop and ask if I can continue and ask her why she is crying. If your partner ever cries just stop, ask them why they are crying, and don't do anything until they say that they want to continue. But if they seem sad just stop completely and do some aftercare!

@Your mummy lol, this is a month late. Yes, it's ok for you to ask. I am told and briefed in many subjects, including s**, enough to get a general understanding of the subject. I can't find myself interested in the idea and while I do and can read about it, I cannot imagine myself in the role without feeling personally revolted at the idea of me doing it with anyone. I do not mind you asking. Have a good day/night

@Your mummy it is def not okay if your partner cries during s** when you haven't discussed it before. Consent and communication is critical for safe, fun s**. Some people enjoy feeling pain to the point of crying or as Aiden sai an org*** can feel super stimulating that you can end up crying a little. However, if you enjoy crying then it should be a discussion prior to having s** as both people involved need to consent. If it happens suddenly you def should stop and make sure it's because they feel good not because they feel uncomfortable or are in pain.