@Your mummy it is def not okay if your partner cries during s** when you haven't discussed it before. Consent and communication is critical for safe, fun s**. Some people enjoy feeling pain to the point of crying or as Aiden sai an org*** can feel super stimulating that you can end up crying a little. However, if you enjoy crying then it should be a discussion prior to having s** as both people involved need to consent. If it happens suddenly you def should stop and make sure it's because they feel good not because they feel uncomfortable or are in pain.