@The girl whose a nerd I gotta agree with Hisoka on this one. Although he was half joking and you might be right about everything you just said, good s** from your loving partner can really lower the "volume" on issues that would normally cause a person to flinch and react. It's not a cure-all panacea but when it's done right it can be more effective than any other single variable in solving inter-family problems.
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Why does Mangabuddy block spellcheck in their comment text fields?
You made me create a browser add-on to fix it.
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