When your heart wants a rapıst, take him 🤷♀️
Comment by Snorlax on Yours to Claim - Chapter 101
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@Snorlax I see your point, but just because Cain didn't ra** him it doesn't mean he was a better person. If I were Jooin I wouldn't want a inept either. Cain was selfish and his reasons for loving Jooin were ridiculous, not even a properly reasons for loving someone.
Initially I was rooting for Yahoi but I recently read the old chapters and I changed my mind, I still think everyone should distance themselves from each other
Initially I was rooting for Yahoi but I recently read the old chapters and I changed my mind, I still think everyone should distance themselves from each other
@just an ordinary bi*** the only selfish thing Cain did was wanting Jooin all for himself without even telling him about his past. Though he had his reasons: not wanting to sound insane and miscalculating Jooin's level of understanding. But he was wrong and it ultimately become his downfall.
Anyway, Jooin always was in love Yahwi only so it was never a fair fight. He did love Cain but he was never in love with him imo.
I don't think his reasons for loving Jooin were ridiculous; love doesn't need reasons, it should be unconditional.
I was okay with Yahwi until he abusẹd and rapẹd Jooin. This can never be okay and some BL authors should stop romanticizing this BS without a proper understanding of trauma bond relationships and REAL redemption arcs. Whatever tf this was, it wasn't redemption. Just some time went by and everything is now somehow ok.
Anyway, Jooin always was in love Yahwi only so it was never a fair fight. He did love Cain but he was never in love with him imo.
I don't think his reasons for loving Jooin were ridiculous; love doesn't need reasons, it should be unconditional.
I was okay with Yahwi until he abusẹd and rapẹd Jooin. This can never be okay and some BL authors should stop romanticizing this BS without a proper understanding of trauma bond relationships and REAL redemption arcs. Whatever tf this was, it wasn't redemption. Just some time went by and everything is now somehow ok.
And Cain definitely IS a better person than a rapıst and abụser. Lol listen to yourself, it's not even a comparison.
@Snorlax You guys are holding onto that ra** claim harder than Jooin ever did.
@Snorlax Cain is a rapist too. Bro forced Jooin to give consent when he was in no state to give it. Next time you wanna say Cain had Jooin's consent just put yourself in his shoes. A person going through a emotional breakdown can't consent, Jooin was clearly coerced, he was a mess and didn't even care or wanted to have s**, he wanted to cry his heart out cause he was suffering. But of course, when it's Cain you just can't see the red flags, you're blinded by that watermelon guy.
@Snorlax and I'm actually saying this as someone that went through that, and you just regret it after but you blame yourself cause you "gave consent", but that's not true. It takes a while to realise how fuc*** up that is, Cain is a horrible person for taking advantage of Jooin poor mental state at the moment to coerce him into bed, same as he was horrible to not wait not even 24 hours to ask him out. Jooin didn't even had time to process what just happened to him. And just for you to see, go back and re read it, Jooin never once wanted to talk about that night again, nor did he try to even touch Cain, he didn't want to happen ever again, he just wanted to erase the whole thing, but he used that to make Yahwi suffer, and that's the only good thing that came out of that abuse.
@May that's cause Jooin lacks a backbone, he stood up for himself against Yahwi's abusẹ and assault at first but later chose to forgive him. It's better to hold it against Yahwi.
@WC LW what happened between Cain and Jooin was bad but it was still not worse than Yahwi's abusıve asṣ. That shıt was straight up dehumanizing. I've been saying this, the best ending before the abuṣe was a 3way and now it's to let these flawed characters go their separate ways. But that's sure asl not happening.
@Snorlax wtf is this comment, made me giggle at you not the actual comment
@Snorlax serious question which chapter was the ra** or abuse in? Like I want to know what you're saying cuz thinking back on it I can't recalled when he was abused or raped except when he was slapped, which I would have done the same ngl