Comment by oDaw on One Step Forward to the Flower Path - Chapter 7

Comment on ChapterOne Step Forward to the Flower Path - Chapter 7

I get that she has trauma and is a child and it's super sad but I still find it cringe when she starts begging

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She obviously would start to beg as her trauma makes her thing that they would the do the same as the people from her past would, and if you went through the same as her when you were a child you are most likely to do the same as, cause of how scared you are. Another thing is that you are not one who has experienced through that so you may not know how she feels, meaning don’t call her cringe for what she is doing or maybe you experienced what she did then you should know better to not call her cringe

You literally just said it tho..SHE HAS TRAUMA. Smh
Ofc she's gonna be wary, scared, and terrified, whenever she encounters someone, who she doesn't know💀💀
why on earth would you state the obvious?

Plus, it's said that, She was abused for YEARS. She's not some OP mc who's reincarnated and is out for vengeance💀 clearly, this is not that type of story:

This is about a CHILD HEALING. ACTUALLY HEALING. Be it, her inner child, her very whole livelihood, And getting the childhood, the family, love and care that she deserves.
 
She has literally been traumatized for most of her life..Imagine getting a second chance only for it to go bad AGAIN and you get traumatized, tortured, tripped out of all the possible freedom and hope you had and suffer for the SECOND TIME💀

if you find her begging (which is a traumatic response/trigger) "cringe" then, G** forbid, anyone who shows ANY type of vulnerability towards you.
Because, I truly pity the poor soul who'll show their lowest side onto you, be it, having a mental meltdown or a trigger response in real time;real life, Only for you to say that sh**, straight to their face. 

 

please relearn how to have empathy.
Or learn how to do so. I doubt that you knew what that even meant in the first place, judging by the lack of parental figures you have in your life.

Zera
ZeraSergeant·3 years ago

Well I can understand why you're cringing, because seeing someone begging for forgiveness is kinda ankward. Plus cringe is not always in a bad way, we could have change this word to "awkward, embarrassed, etc.." and so I don't think this would have been received this badly.
Like I think they understand, that MC suffered, but when you see someone who every single time, beg for forgiveness or to not hurt her. Even if you feel bad for her and want to help her. At some point or even from the start, you would feel awkward or embarrassed from this situation.
 
So in the end, it's just a bad choice of words and I feel the same, I just feel awkward and bad for the child. It's just pity. And that totally normal,so please guys don't jump to conclusions.