Bro is extremely inconsiderate and it's getting tiring...like if all you want is ji** then go bother another alpha and see how that goes. The ML was a little weird in the beginning but it's probably because he's been holding on to these desires for so long that he will dive any opportunity to be close to him...even if it's transactional. I genuinely feel bad for him.
Comment by Deviant on You Are My World - Chapter 13
5 Replies
@Deviant
You’re missing the 'why' behind Juhyeok’s entire actions, and that’s the whole point people keep ignoring. He isn’t being "inconsiderate” just because he’s asking Su Ah for stability—he’s literally a product of years of NON-CONSENSUAL pheromone interference. He's became so dependent to Su Ah to the point where he can’t even take suppressants anymore without risking his stability—something he could’ve done ages ago if it weren’t for Su Ah forcing him into this situation. He's not doing any this shii for fun or just for his own 'selfish' convenience that everyone of y'all thinking, he's trying to survive in a body that's been HIJACKED by that very same Alpha's obsession that your gooning for. And yes, he’s awkward about it because of the imbalance, but that’s a natural response to trauma, not entitlement or cruelty. If you actually pay attention to the story, all the “weird” or “transactional” moments are Juhyeok trying to navigate a system that Su Ah literally built around him WITHOUT CONSENT . The problem isn’t the MC, it’s that some readers keep centering the Alpha’s comfort while erasing the very real consequences of Su Ah’s obsession, coercion, and boundary-crossing. Feel bad for Su Ah all you want, but don’t rewrite the narrative to make the Juhyeok the villain when he’s been surviving the fallout of someone else’s actions the whole da** time.
You’re missing the 'why' behind Juhyeok’s entire actions, and that’s the whole point people keep ignoring. He isn’t being "inconsiderate” just because he’s asking Su Ah for stability—he’s literally a product of years of NON-CONSENSUAL pheromone interference. He's became so dependent to Su Ah to the point where he can’t even take suppressants anymore without risking his stability—something he could’ve done ages ago if it weren’t for Su Ah forcing him into this situation. He's not doing any this shii for fun or just for his own 'selfish' convenience that everyone of y'all thinking, he's trying to survive in a body that's been HIJACKED by that very same Alpha's obsession that your gooning for. And yes, he’s awkward about it because of the imbalance, but that’s a natural response to trauma, not entitlement or cruelty. If you actually pay attention to the story, all the “weird” or “transactional” moments are Juhyeok trying to navigate a system that Su Ah literally built around him WITHOUT CONSENT . The problem isn’t the MC, it’s that some readers keep centering the Alpha’s comfort while erasing the very real consequences of Su Ah’s obsession, coercion, and boundary-crossing. Feel bad for Su Ah all you want, but don’t rewrite the narrative to make the Juhyeok the villain when he’s been surviving the fallout of someone else’s actions the whole da** time.
@Blvynx you know what, ur right. its definitely necessary to note that pheromone interference would fundamentally distort anyone person sense of agency. However, Juhyeok didn’t enter this situation as a blank slate. His entire family is an alpha. He's been exposed to alpha pheromones his entire life. That history matters. Framing Su Ah as the sole reason for his pheromone instability ignores a significant part of the narrative and feels like you're hyper-focused on one element rather than the story as a whole. BUT Su Ah's not in the green at all, his behavior is unacceptable and his obsession knows no bounds. With that being said, when I say he should go to another alpha for help. I genuinely mean that, like maybe confiding in his mom or an actual specialist that can render treatment and navigate him OUT of this dependency. Cause going to a person who desires you beyond reason obviously is not the move.
@Deviant going to other alphas is not an option though? its shown that other alpha's pheromones make him sick, lets not forget that su-ah non consensuallyscented him for so long that the mc can now only depend on him
@Deviant
Yeah, I get what you’re saying about his family’s influence—it does matter that Juhyeok grew up around Alpha pheromones. But what you overlooked is that in the early chapters (around ch 1–3), the doctor explicitly states that Juhyeok FIRST presented as an Alpha during his initial secondary gender screening (his mom even confirmed it). Then suddenly turned as a recessive Omega overnight, which is exactly why the doctor questioned whether he’d been exposed to strong external pheromones. His family alone doesn’t explain that shift, if anything, he would’ve built some level of resistance or immunity to his family’s pheromones over time—especially since he USED to be an alpha himself as a child and was raised by them. A drastic switch like that realistically points to exposure to a far more dominant pheromone—Su Ah’s.
Sure, they were kids back then, so the early exposure may not have been intentional. But the dependency didn’t just come from accidental contact. Su Ah literally ADMITTED he’s been intentionally scenting Juhyeok ever since he became an Omega. That’s not passive influence—that’s sustained interference that went beyond normal biology.
That’s why Juhyeok isn’t only resistant to suppressants now—you forgot that he's become resistant to other Alphas’ pheromones too. It's not as if he's clinging out of desire or malice, it’s because THAT'S the only way he can stay stable. He’s even said he wants to stop depending on Su Ah and reclaim his autonomy. But Su Ah consistently ignores boundaries, which is why everything is this tangled. Family history matters, yes—but you can't ignore the years of intentional interference.
Yeah, I get what you’re saying about his family’s influence—it does matter that Juhyeok grew up around Alpha pheromones. But what you overlooked is that in the early chapters (around ch 1–3), the doctor explicitly states that Juhyeok FIRST presented as an Alpha during his initial secondary gender screening (his mom even confirmed it). Then suddenly turned as a recessive Omega overnight, which is exactly why the doctor questioned whether he’d been exposed to strong external pheromones. His family alone doesn’t explain that shift, if anything, he would’ve built some level of resistance or immunity to his family’s pheromones over time—especially since he USED to be an alpha himself as a child and was raised by them. A drastic switch like that realistically points to exposure to a far more dominant pheromone—Su Ah’s.
Sure, they were kids back then, so the early exposure may not have been intentional. But the dependency didn’t just come from accidental contact. Su Ah literally ADMITTED he’s been intentionally scenting Juhyeok ever since he became an Omega. That’s not passive influence—that’s sustained interference that went beyond normal biology.
That’s why Juhyeok isn’t only resistant to suppressants now—you forgot that he's become resistant to other Alphas’ pheromones too. It's not as if he's clinging out of desire or malice, it’s because THAT'S the only way he can stay stable. He’s even said he wants to stop depending on Su Ah and reclaim his autonomy. But Su Ah consistently ignores boundaries, which is why everything is this tangled. Family history matters, yes—but you can't ignore the years of intentional interference.
@drac he did so because that literally protects him because his own prejudice was putting him in danger bc of his own gender.
If you lived a pretty normal (beta like) life. These heat cycles would have come about anyway. And saying "oh well other alphas make him nauseous so it's su-ah's fault" is Bullshit!
The reason he finds alpha's nauseating is because he's prejudiced because he doesn't like being Omega. And then if we're going to use a/b/o logic then the reason he's ONLY attracted to Su-Ah is because that's literally a fated pair in this genre.
If you lived a pretty normal (beta like) life. These heat cycles would have come about anyway. And saying "oh well other alphas make him nauseous so it's su-ah's fault" is Bullshit!
The reason he finds alpha's nauseating is because he's prejudiced because he doesn't like being Omega. And then if we're going to use a/b/o logic then the reason he's ONLY attracted to Su-Ah is because that's literally a fated pair in this genre.