Comment by Shadow on Nickname

You'll be surprised what men (yes "in general" think is "okay" and "not harassment".

Like, grabbing you, hug your waist at work, catcaling, are all fine, cause it's just "compliments".

But the scariest thing is, a LOT of them don't even understand no, like, genuely don't undertsand... Like when they flirting or something, and you say you're not interested, they automatically think they should just push more to succeed... you literally have to say you have a boyfriend, because  your no doesn't mean anything to them, but a hypothetical  no of a hypothetically existing man is immediately accepted and respected.

Yes, the bar is really that low.

A lot of men literally think women are simply lesser humans to the point they literally see us as free prey, OR another man's property they shouldn't touch. No other options. There's just no way a woman could (should) do any decision on their own, has their own will, she must follow a male's will...

A LOT of guy think like that... Scary, terrifying how man-many more than you would ever want to admit...