@Last braincell
don't, be proud of yourself.
the keyword is not now, it isn't never. If you let the shame overcome you, she's going to feel bad and you will likely drift apart (though this will be for a while). If you need to, talk it out with her (let her know you want to stay friends and while you will need time to cool your feelings for her, you treasure your friendship more)
Think about it from her shoes, you've been harboring these feelings for a while, she's just learned about this. Give her time to process (it's actually a bonus if you recognize this when speaking with her)
don't, be proud of yourself.
the keyword is not now, it isn't never. If you let the shame overcome you, she's going to feel bad and you will likely drift apart (though this will be for a while). If you need to, talk it out with her (let her know you want to stay friends and while you will need time to cool your feelings for her, you treasure your friendship more)
Think about it from her shoes, you've been harboring these feelings for a while, she's just learned about this. Give her time to process (it's actually a bonus if you recognize this when speaking with her)