Can i have some help recently I went though something some ppl would call tramatic I feel fine but it dosent even feel like it happened it feels like a haunting dream. My friends and family have all told me that im acting diffrent. Ive noticed it to I tend to crave ppls praise more usally i wouldent care unless your my family but now i care about every little thing. I also havent had the drive to eat in the past year or 2 I can only eat about one meal a day but not all at once it has to be spread out thought the day. So ppl would kill for the body I have because I stay skinny no matter what I eat but thats because I cant eat much. And on days when I cant eat at all I drop like 4-5 pounds in 2 days. I also have no drive to do the things I love anymore the feel more like task and I dont enjoy anything really anymore. I dont think Im depressed because I feel happy I just feel like somethings missing. I get along with everyone I have basicly everything I need so I dont nknow what im lacking. I aslo wanna gain some weight becasue sometimes i feel to skinny. What should i do to fix my phyiscal and mental state. I wanna do better and succed at life I dont wanna feel like this for any longer. Please help me thank you! Also im 14 so some some things may be out of my reach
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@Akemi it seems you might have an eating disorder. Eating one meal per day is not normal at all, especially considering your age. I hope you talk about it to your parents and go to a doctor.
Just know you don't need to be a certain weight to impress others. You're still young and you're still growing as a person.
@Akemi a bleak reality is that most of us lack purpose in life and without something truly wrong there is no easy motivation to do anything. You're still young enough to just chill and enjoy the peace before the storm. If you're really feeling like you need something I suggest you look up what you want to be and make micro steps into achieving that, such as finding a guy with the job you want and finding his LinkedIn and, learning and following similar skills and career.
considering your our family (assuming multiple relatives have said the same) has noticed differences, try and think when these changes started if you can or around when your family pointed out the fact you changed. Was there a decisive event or circumstance that changed the way you see things? There are multiple ways trauma can influence our lives, sometimes we aren’t aware of the impact.
Consider reading 2 Corinthians 1:3-5, Psalm 25: 14-18 and/or 1st Peter 5:6-7 for suggestions of what one can do in a situation similar to what you shared here
Trick yourself into eating by eating foods you find yourself having no problem eating or easy to digest meals like soup or porridge, apple sauce.
I do have a theory based on something you shared prior, which I’ll post in an older thread. You can use notifications to find the response
@Akemi oh dear, im guessing it's puberty... instead of eating big meals why not try asking small snacks like a protein bar? take some time off for yourself as well!!
@Lol THank you but I dont want a relationship yet I cant take care of my self how am I supossed to be there for a partner. I also promised G** that the next person I would date is going to be my husband.
@Random commenter Thank you and I dont remeber when exactly it started it or what started it. But ive told my family about the eating thing and my mom and sisters just told me that Im fine and it will go away with time. My dad doesnt really get it so he didnt say much other than "im sorry"
Thank you I will read them!
Thats a good idea I havent thought about that. I can eat lots of strawberrys and pupusas!
